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A Four-Step Approach to Working with Anger – with Ron Siegel, PsyD
For many clients, expressing anger can feel overwhelming, shameful, or even downright scary.
Problem is (and as I know you know), when a client takes great pains to avoid anger, it often just leads to bigger problems.
So how might we resource clients with skills that can help them respond to and manage their anger more productively?
Well, have a look at the video below - Ron Siegel, PsyD, walks through four key steps to get you started.
You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/anger-four-step-approach/
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Recognizing the More Subtle Signs of the Freeze Response
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It’s often easy to identify the obvious cues that your client is in freeze . . . . . . but what about times when the signs are so subtle, you might dismiss it (or even overlook it)? In the video, Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD shares how recognizing a more subtle sign of freeze helped her through a sticking point with her client. You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/subtle...
An Attachment-Based Approach for Clients Who Avoid Conflict
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When clients avoid conflict, it can make sustaining relationships difficult. And that includes the therapeutic relationship. But according to Eboni Webb, PsyD, before you address your client’s conflict avoidance head on, you might want to consider their attachment style. In the video, Eboni walks through her attachment-based approach with clients who avoid conflict or confrontation. You can rea...
The Intersectionality of Depression & Racialized Trauma - A Case Study
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Race and trauma can often be intertwined, particularly for BIPOC clients. And these experiences can leave them feeling disempowered and hopeless. What’s more, for clients with a history of racial trauma, this sense of hopelessness can deepen into depression, especially in a society that often fails to recognize the impact of racism. So how might we help when a client’s depression stems from exp...
Confront Distressing Emotions: The Ultimate Titrated Solution For Clients
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When a client hits a roadblock in therapy, it’s sometimes because they’re actively trying to avoid stirring up (or even talking about) painful memories or emotions. Now of course, it’s understandable why most clients skirt around painful topics to some extent . . . . . . but as we know, it can also become a major impediment to healing. And so, to restore therapeutic progress, we often need to h...
Helping Clients Make Meaning Out of Loss
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When a client experiences a significant or sudden loss, it can feel all-consuming . . . . . . especially when they start to sift through the layers of emotion that so often accompany grief. So how might you help a client process those intense emotions, so that they can begin to make meaning out of their loss? In the video below, Elliott Connie, MA, LPC walks through his approach with a client s...
Three Questions to Help Clients Process and Release Regret
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When regret takes hold, many clients spiral into self-criticism and self-blame . . . . . . and too often, it becomes a debilitating loop that only deepens their regret. But according to Ron Siegel, PsyD, there are three key questions you might ask to help your client begin to disrupt this cycle and release feelings of regret. You can read the full blog and more from NICABM here: www.nicabm.com/...
Pat Ogden, PhD’s Go-To Strategies for Working with Clients who Please & Appease
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In the aftermath of trauma, getting to the heart of your client’s pain can be complex - especially when that client is caught in a defense response pattern that trauma researchers often identify as please and appease. For many clients, chronic people-pleasing bleeds into every relationship. . . . . . and when that includes the therapeutic relationship, it can block your client’s ability to open...
Four Key Components of Confronting a Narcissistic Personality - with Ellyn Bader, PhD
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When it comes to confronting a client’s pattern of narcissism or grandiosity, it’s safe to say you might meet with some pushback along the way. So to up your chances of success (and also mitigate the risk of damage to the therapeutic relationship), it can be helpful to pad your treatment plan with a few key components. In the video, Ellyn Bader, PhD takes us through them. You can read the full ...
A Sensorimotor Technique To Guide Your Self-disclosure
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When it comes to self-disclosure in our clinical work, it can be critical to weigh very carefully just how and when we use it . . . . . . especially in cases where a client relays an experience that bumps up against a painful or overwhelming experience, we may have had ourselves. But according to Ray Rodriguez, LCSW-R there’s a sensorimotor approach that can help guide you, if or when such circ...
Strategies to Help Clients Who Feel “Never Good Enough” - with Steven Hayes, PhD
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Ever notice how some of your most highly skilled, successful clients often find themselves burnt out and unsatisfied? That no matter how much they achieve, feelings of inadequacy leave them believing that they’re just “never good enough”? To help them move out of this belief, one critical first step can be getting them to identify what’s driving it. In the video, Steven Hayes, PhD walks through...
A Parts Approach for Restoring Pleasure and Vitality After Trauma with Janina Fisher, PhD
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After trauma, there’s one (critical) stage of healing that can often feel elusive. You see, even when a client has made significant progress in therapy, they often still report feeling numb, and not fully present in their own life. That’s why interventions designed to help clients reconnect with their sense of vitality and pleasure can be crucial in the treatment of trauma. So in the video belo...
How to Help Traumatized Patients Restore their Vitality - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
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So much of our work with traumatized patients is often centered around trauma stabilization and processing. . . . . . but if we don’t help patients move beyond these early stages of recovery, they’re at risk of staying stuck in the past, repeatedly re-engaging with their trauma. So in the video below, Bessel van der Kolk, MD shares what can help patients reclaim their vitality and move beyond e...
Recognizing and Treating Moral Injury - with Bill Nash, MD
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Moral injury is not necessarily a new phenomenon in the human experience, but it’s a relatively young concept in the field of psychology. The research is still evolving - but we’re discovering more about the overlapping similarities and key differences between moral injury and PTSD. And as leading researchers like Bill Nash, MD uncover more insights, they’re finding that conventional trauma int...
How To Overcome PTSD And Traumatic Invalidation With Martin Bohus, PhD
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It used to be that when working with trauma, so much of our focus centered on helping clients process their traumatic experience. But over the past several years, we’ve gained a better understanding that that’s just one piece of the work - and perhaps now more than ever, we understand that multiple approaches are often needed to address different facets of a client’s trauma. For example, resear...
Treating PTSD and Traumatic Invalidation with Martin Bohus, PhD
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Treating PTSD and Traumatic Invalidation with Martin Bohus, PhD
How Neglect Can Impact Brain Development - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
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How Neglect Can Impact Brain Development - with Bessel van der Kolk, MD
Shelly Harrell Phd Shares A Strategy To Help Clients Repair Ruptures.
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Shelly Harrell Phd Shares A Strategy To Help Clients Repair Ruptures.
Working with Deep Fears of Rejection - with Lynn Lyons, LICSW
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Working with Deep Fears of Rejection - with Lynn Lyons, LICSW
Working with Emotional Triggers and Trauma - with Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT
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Working with Emotional Triggers and Trauma - with Bill O’Hanlon, LMFT
Strategies for Working with Narcissism - with Jennifer Sweeton, PsyD
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Strategies for Working with Narcissism - with Jennifer Sweeton, PsyD
Working with Feelings of Defectiveness and Shame - with Ron Siegel, PsyD
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Working with Feelings of Defectiveness and Shame - with Ron Siegel, PsyD
Working with a Client’s Sense of Disillusionment - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
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Working with a Client’s Sense of Disillusionment - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Addressing Trauma-Fueled Jealousy- with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
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Addressing Trauma-Fueled Jealousy- with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
A Key Sign of Dissociative Identity Disorder - with Kathy Steele, MN, CS
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A Key Sign of Dissociative Identity Disorder - with Kathy Steele, MN, CS
Working with Racial Trauma and Gaslighting - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
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Working with Racial Trauma and Gaslighting - with Usha Tummala-Narra, PhD
Working with a Client's Emotional Triggers - with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
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Working with a Client's Emotional Triggers - with Ruth Lanius, MD, PhD
A Polyvagal Approach to Working with Shame - with Stephen Porges, PhD
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A Polyvagal Approach to Working with Shame - with Stephen Porges, PhD
Working with the Freeze Response with Peter Levine, PhD
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Working with the Freeze Response with Peter Levine, PhD
Treating Relational Trauma - with Terry Real, MSW, LICSW
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Treating Relational Trauma - with Terry Real, MSW, LICSW

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @292Artemis
    @292Artemis 13 годин тому

    Very interesting, thank you! Engaging with others....well, it does make a lot of sense now that I used to enjoy Aikido and still love horseback riding. Plus interacting with horses in general.

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 День тому

    Thank you for this information❤ I don't have it as severely as others in coments but I am always in a lot of pain because of this.Can you help with sleepwalking? I notice if I take care of what I'm worried about and take care of it I don't do it as often. Any tips would be greatly appreciated ❤

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 День тому

    I'm 61 had this problem for years cacked teeth ear ache for years thinking ear infection very painful thank you❤ I can work with this😊

  • @cindysmith6612
    @cindysmith6612 День тому

    Thank you ❤ I can't believe how easy that was to fix. How about sleep walking do you have any tips for me?

  • @sophiaadams73
    @sophiaadams73 2 дні тому

    2.1k likes over 4 years isn’t nearly enough. THESE are the type of videos I deem worthy of going viral. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @brittanyjewell6756
    @brittanyjewell6756 2 дні тому

    Seeing Peter skip was exactly what I needed this morning

  • @lisarumble3518
    @lisarumble3518 2 дні тому

    Thankyou bessel 😊 I'm reading your book, body keeps the score, collapsing into silence pg 293, this as been occurring to me fir last 20 years, I thought I had a fear of silence. Now I understand

  • @FirefliesMulti
    @FirefliesMulti 3 дні тому

    Other specified, use to be called "Dissociative disorder not other wise specified".(ddNOS) We were dx with this at first, and it was so invalidating as many of the younger alters were so confused. How could they not be specified? did that mean we were an oddball that just didnt' fit into any other category? They were upset that no one was being specific. I mean we had to be either one thing, or another. We couldn't just be some non specific thing! You're correct that dissociating has a bad name, but even more so, more than one personality/identity has a really bad name! and some therapists dont' even believe that it's a real thing. so we were told that DID wasn't a valid diagnosis at all. so what did that make us? invalid? we didn't exist? because a therapist said that calling us by our names would "cement" us in and make our condition worse? how? He just made our condition worse by saying that alters weren't even real! It did so much damage. In his opinion, alters were created by a former therapist putting the idea into our head, and to "people please" we took on the symptoms to appease the therapist. What in the actual..... ? You've got to be kidding me right? this therapist seriously thought that they had that much power over people that they could put some notion into their head and suddenly the person takes on the symptoms? If the above is true... then why can't another therapist, such as themselves, put the idea into our head that it's all made up and we are really just one person. Guess what? despite what they said, we are still multiple people. Therapists, need to be very mindful of what they say to their patients. And how they label them.

  • @wzupppp
    @wzupppp 3 дні тому

    Why would movement help me if im in shutdown? Im exhausted and exercise gives me more symptoms and PEM

  • @Dial8Transmition
    @Dial8Transmition 4 дні тому

    I am and adult who have autism and PTSD and I have always found it almost impossible to change my brain in this way

  • @MishaIsha1
    @MishaIsha1 5 днів тому

    I think pranayam can help with this? I do think so.

  • @Sonia-qz4xv
    @Sonia-qz4xv 5 днів тому

    Thank you so much! I really needed to hear this as it is my story of my father dying and mother leaving me when I was 2. I stayed with abusive neighbors and Mom was drunk when she was home. I'm 62 and never married and no children, no family and losing people still because of the abandonment. I'm so sad and tired of being alone past 15 years. I will work on this and thanks anyone for sharing. I don't feel all alone. Is there a super group for this particular issue?

  • @unicorndreammaliah
    @unicorndreammaliah 7 днів тому

    Thanks for this. I can relate to the abusive relationship thing, so scared of being left/ending I kept going on with it for months

  • @kellyschroeder7437
    @kellyschroeder7437 7 днів тому

    Said right living head up 💔🥲

  • @kellyschroeder7437
    @kellyschroeder7437 7 днів тому

    God Bless 💞💙🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💙💞

  • @kellyschroeder7437
    @kellyschroeder7437 7 днів тому

    Think another listen for myself. Overwhelmed is an understatement. I’m so tired of waiting and keep trying …. And no funds or physical ability

  • @Cartooncosmic
    @Cartooncosmic 9 днів тому

    I get rejected badly 2 time from same person or when I see other movie or anything I get panic attack all those tiggers i feel like I can't breath I feel I want to hid e i hate

  • @kellyaylorjarrell
    @kellyaylorjarrell 9 днів тому

    YES, BUt...i have PTSD/D.I.D. And Dr. Said she saw me, "Switching," I thought i was stupid for the past 10 years. 😢😢😮😮😮😮😮 can you make a video about that?

  • @drstansteindl
    @drstansteindl 10 днів тому

    Great stuff!

  • @tarakadir9259
    @tarakadir9259 10 днів тому

    Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

  • @Benjaminpyatt
    @Benjaminpyatt 11 днів тому

    Thank you for explaining the link between sense ir response to self and the lack of pleasurable emotions

  • @JesusLightsYourPath
    @JesusLightsYourPath 13 днів тому

    This is a super long comment, I'm sorry. Sometimes I think that I have D.I.D. but I don't think my symptoms are severe enough? I don't remember most of my childhood. I have memories here and there of my childhood but I mostly only remember traumatic parts. My lack of memory has made it difficult to perform well in school (college) because I don't really remember what I have learned. I forget a lot of things but I don't even realize I'm forgetting most of the time, I don't think I have complete amnesia?? I always forget to do important things like turn in an assignment, pay rent, take medicine, I have to set alarms for everything and if it's super important I have to set several alarms for it. But this seems kind of minor to me, I've never really found something I bought without remembering that I bought it. I do forget WHEN I've bought things, I throw a lot of food out because I can't remember if I bought it last week or last month, I used to write dates on stuff whenever I buy it but it's so exhausting to have to do that. Anytime I go to a really stressful meeting such as a job interview or a therapy session I have to write down everything we talk about in a note book as we speak, otherwise my memory will become foggy after I leave and I won't remember everything we spoke about. I've experienced some dissociative symptoms such as my voice changing to a childs voice or a males voice and it feels so foreign to me but I don't know how to change it back. I have to wait for it to change back on its own. I get triggered anytime I experience conflict, it makes me feel terrified but I hide it well, sometimes I have to cry afterwards (when I'm alone) because I almost feel the same way I felt when I was being abused. I tried to be in my first relationship but my feelings with him were so conflicting and confusing. The beginning half of the day would be great, I would feel as though I was happy with him and wanted to be with him but then the other half of the day I would feel numb, like I didn't want any affection from him. I felt so confused but he was very patient with me the whole time. I eventually ended the relationship because I thought maybe I just didn't have real feelings for him. I often feel numb after a traumatic event happens and my brain pushes the memory far in the back of my mind so that I don't really remember it. Thanks if you read the whole thing, sorry if it was all over the place. I worry that if I bring up D.I.D. to a therapist they will automatically say that's not what it is since I'm the one who suggested it.

  • @koolkatmi
    @koolkatmi 13 днів тому

    You guys should come to point quickly

  • @laurenking9524
    @laurenking9524 14 днів тому

    It’s not just not wanting to be or know those things. People get a specialist who is trained. Therapists get trained or sign post to one who is. Please.

  • @laurenking9524
    @laurenking9524 14 днів тому

    There is the symptom dissociation and a dissociative disorder. And in the Uk people can be qualified to actually diagnose and therefore there are those who don’t…

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 14 днів тому

    He the REAL expert, unlike...

  • @andread.4665
    @andread.4665 16 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @robynhope219
    @robynhope219 17 днів тому

    I don't feel shame anymore...it only took me 70+yrs...